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How does one succeed in life?

11.06.2025 17:01

How does one succeed in life?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Is it possible for the U.S. government to get rid of the constitution for national safety?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

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Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Procrastinates a lot.

Making more friends is a goal.

What were Sauron's powers in The Lord of the Rings (LOTR)? Did he have any magic or anything like that?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

I’m worried I have a bat bite on my hand, I have two small marks about 1 cm apart. I haven’t been in contact with a bat but I’m worried about at night. My fingers have a slight tingling sensation and my arm feels cold but isn’t. Am I ok?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Does not procrastinate.

I saw a post on X which says "control your lust & you'll understand how boring 90% of women are." What do you think about it? Do you agree or disagree? Why?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

What I need from you?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

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Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

How is it not psychopathic to use someone for sex, even if they agree?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Do not set goals—set systems.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

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Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

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Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

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If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

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Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

That's it for today.

Ask yourself:

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Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

How conservative the Japanese people really is? And the government?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Do you think a lot of sociopaths' parents kill themselves for having brought such disgusting evil into the world? How much shame and disgust must they carry?

Hangs out with loser friends.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.